The Gentlemen Who We Girls Consider...

This entry goes to the guys... *girls pun baca2 jgk laa.. seriously you must acknowledge the value of a good guy rather than just getting a crush on the bad boys (well, phm2 jgk kn..girls~.. )
why i feel like doing this entry??
coz i think guys should MUST aware with this kind of stuff...


How girls consider a guy to be gentleman??
there's a lot of way actually... but let's put it in a situation ok...


pada 1 hari, girl ni kelihatan sedang bersusah payah mengangkat barang yang berat..
kebetulan that guy lalu di situ, dia nampak lalu dia pun tolong girl tu angkatkan barang tu.. dengan senyuman yang ramah.. no need to talk a lot actually, just a sincere smile is enough.. *sebab kadang2 girls ni kalau tlampau ramah payah jgk tu d layan.. huhu


ok, ni sikit ja ni.. baru warming up org bilang.... let's have a look on 2nd situation:


Alrighty, so we all know that girls is a very the manja spiecies..KanKan?? huhu... ni berlaku especially bila dorang perlukan pertolongan.. bila girl ni cutely ask for help, guy ni haruslah faham it takes a pride and a nerves actually for the girl to make such stunts *bukan senang2 k... jadi guy pun jawab nicely weather dia dapat tlg ka x.. mostly a gentleman yg i know will always say 'yes'. tapi girls pun ingat2 la.. manja2 jgk, jgn jgk tlebih gedix bikin meluat.. aku rs mo pijak2 ja girl gini!! huhu
but for a guy yang dapat bsabar ngan karenah2 girls nih.. I GIVE U MY RESPECT!!


In relationship plak...

gentleman always start first.. dalam apa2 jua situasi.. From tanya khabar sampai la part surprisement... yupp, girls like guys yang know how to show care..  and guy should always lead, not controlling but lead!! there's a differences in that you know.. 


Rasanya banyak lagi ni, but my brains are not being cooperative enough..
so aku mo crita la pengalaman ku about a gentleman i met once..
ni baru terjadi jgk.. time aku praktikal..huhu.. 

So i was on a bus with a friend, we'r on our way to our rent apartment. since the seat was full and my friend got the last seat and unluckly im the only one end up didn't get the seat so i have to stand... 

seeing me standing alone looking pittiful.. (aku pun xtaw la kali cm kesian btul muka ku kn bdiri2 d situ.. my friend say im standing looking funny..buduh!) 

So ada guy ni dia bdiri then bagi aku duduk his seat.. tapi yang lucunya when he pointed me to the seat, the bus conductor misunderstood.. dia ingat he's paying for two (for me la kunuk). so  abg conductor pun kira for two lah.. that guy bingung2 xtw mo ckp apa but still he pulled out the money as requested.. aku pun btambah bingung lah.. huhu bongok rupanya aku nih, blurr~...

dengan kebingungan d kepala aku pun duduk laa..masi lagi bfikir nih then i ask abg conductor.. 

'bang, sapa yang bayarkan saya?'

abang tu tunjuk the guy..' trus aku kasi kuar duit then suh bayar blk sama that guy..

the guy nampak then dia geleng ja meaning no need  to pay him back laa..

we arrived at our stop, sampai turun aku xsempat lagi say tq ngan dia.. 

sambil berlalu so i was like... 'yupp, that's a gentleman right there'

Tu je lah critanya.. 
so there you go... to guys out there, it's not too late to be one of the gentles...
but it's not that easy though.. it takes patience, courage and definitely a good heart to be one..


p/s: the guy yang aku crita td tu... thanx.. mudah2an d murahkan rezeki.. if only there's a lot of man out there mcm tu jgk.. syukur laa.. dapat jgk menebus slek nisbah laki2:wanita.. 

 

Secret that remains as secret...

Some people keeps their secret to the grave..

but some people just can't stand to hold it inside...

i am once a person that live in life full of secrecy

full with doubts and pain

But there's a day comes when i feel so lifeless i choose to change.. 

The secrets in my life are no longer secret..

it's what i willing to let go..

i've open up to the people..even to the world..

i've give up every pride in me to let the pain go..

But those dark days.. i can never spill it out..

coz i am what those things made me..

though how much it change me through my looks nor my way..but it can never change my beliefs

But i now slowly learn that secret shouldn't meant to be burst out..

it's a matter of how you keep it and take it inside.. 

to have a patience and understanding to realize  the rationalism and try to make peace with it!

Yeah, people can only know what you feel but they can never know how you feel..

it's a pain that you'll just have to suffer yourself..

In the end.. you'll realize.. that's just what life is.. grow up!!

my perfect wish!!

Life is what makes the living.. it is subjective to anyone certain..

people say life's short.. make it your best and live to the fullest..

but what actually makes you feel satisfied and what scale can we look to for our life to be considered as satisfying??

of course there'd be no scale but just a list that i think people probably would agree so...

1) Happy family..
    to have a loving and understanding parents.. caring and helpful siblings.. warm atmosphere at home..

2) Good Job
    good job with a good salary is like a signature.. something that you and your parents can be proud of in your life..

3) A wonderful life partner
    here i would mean to say.. a good loving caring understandable responsible loyal husband...hoho..sounds absurd.. but well just follow the story line yeah?

4) beautiful memories
     happy memories that remains in your heart.. an achievement you made in your life or some sweet passed that brings the laugh and smile , something like those experience you can share with others.. it would be wonderful.

There you go..
the most listed journey in life i persume to acheive and i guess everybody does too right??
Well, perfect life is just a fantasy they say.. you need luck to have this life...
so i hope im the lucky person.. though i never been one (in my entire life..i never won that stupid lucky draw..)